He is just not that into you.

Is not only the title of a hilarious book, but also a lesson I need to learn. So there is this guy we will call Brian. I liked him right away, I think mostly it was his sense of humor. Whatever it was while assuring me he WAS into me, he could not keep a plan we made, not even once. So I can not comment on the sexual relationship between us as it never was. I think that just like I will continue to tell a guy I have plans, "I'm too busy" or "I have to work late" rather than just saying, "Dude, this isn't for me. I am just not that into you" guys will probably do this as well to "spare" our feelings. But please guys do not make repeated plans and not show up and then make excuses and say you want to make more plans. That is just plain mean.